If you’ve ever wondered whether your love for community, culture, (or even vintage Star Wars collectibles) could really turn into something meaningful—or if you’re quietly questioning whether it’s too late to start—this episode is yours.
This week on Midlife Unmuted™, I’m talking with
founder of powwows.com and a longtime digital community builder who proves it’s never too late to show up, stand for something, and lead with heart. Paul’s been cultivating loyal audiences and celebrating Native American culture online for nearly three decades—long before “community” was a buzzword—using livestreams, video, and consistent, values-forward content, all while juggling family, work, and a not-so-secret Disney obsession.Paul’s story? It’ll make you rethink everything you assume about slow growth, showing your true self online, and the myth that visibility is all about flashy trends or overnight wins.
👋 Who is Paul Gowder?
Paul is the founder of powwows.com—a platform that’s been connecting people and spotlighting Native culture and stories for nearly 30 years. He’s a family man, travel enthusiast, self-professed Disney fan, and, after 25 years in IT and public service, now a full-time content creator and coach. Whether he’s building out a multi-million viewer livestream or writing a thoughtful email to one reader, Paul is living proof that steady, purpose-driven presence trumps algorithm-chasing any day.
You can learn more at https://powwows.com or at https://paulgowder.com
🎙️ Inside this conversation:
How Paul built and sustained powwows.com for almost 30 years—and why “showing up as yourself” is at the core of everything he does
Simple strategies for growing an intentional online community (even if you’re not trying to “be the face”)
The truth about email: how Paul uses story-driven, sequenced emails to turn casual fans into devoted subscribers (and why your list matters more than your follower count)
Balancing personal and professional: why weaving in your real-life passions helps you stand out and build trust, even as you grow your business
Lessons from livestreaming cultural events with respect and integrity (and keeping the tech simple—even back in the days of FireWire cables!)
There’s so much permission in this episode to build something slow, meaningful, and uniquely yours—no hopping on every trend required.
Paul’s challenge for you? 🎯
Pick one thing you love—whether it’s a story, a life lesson, or a personal interest—and share it in your next email or video, just as you are. Not the “business version” of you, but the person your friends know.
✨ Key Takeaway:
Sustainable visibility isn’t about going viral—it’s about consistency, purpose, and caring for your community as much as your craft.
Let yourself take up space, even if you’re late to the party—you might just inspire someone else to do the same.
Cheering for your bold, unmuted midlife, Tanya
P.S. How are you showing up for your community this week? Hit reply—I’d love to hear your story.
Midlife Unmuted™ is the limited-run series on Stream Like a Boss® TV spotlighting service-driven creators over 40 who are building visible, purpose-led businesses with sustainable video and content. Hosted by Tanya Smith, every episode delivers real stories, clear strategies, and encouragement to help you stay visible—on your own terms.
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